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What does it mean to be sober curious?
- If you feel like reducing your alcohol intake would have a positive impact on your physical and mental health, then the sober curious lifestyle might be for you! You don’t have to struggle with addiction to recognize that drinking doesn’t serve you. Whether you’re sick of weekend hangovers, starting the day fuzzy-headed after a couple of glasses with dinner the night before, or wondering how alcohol is affecting your moods, making the choice to avoid alcohol for a while can greatly improve your quality of life. Click through this gallery to learn all about the sober curious movement and decide if it’s the right choice for you.
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The bad side of the buzz - We all know that consuming alcohol has negative side effects. Besides the obvious hangovers, it can also affect our moods and ability to focus, even in small quantities. What's more, it can cause irritation to the gut and increase the likelihood of developing a number of serious illnesses.
© Shutterstock
1 / 30 Fotos
Diminishing stamina
- It’s easy to shake off a few weeknight drinks when you’re in your early twenties, but as life goes on the hangovers seem to get worse and last longer.
© Shutterstock
2 / 30 Fotos
Countering social norms
- Social drinking is so normalized that choosing not to drink purely for wellness reasons is quite unusual and can often draw questions and assumptions. The sober curious movement aims to normalize the choice not to drink, even if it’s not because of addiction issues.
© Shutterstock
3 / 30 Fotos
Sobriety vs. sober curiosity - We don’t need to meet the criteria for alcohol addiction in order to reevaluate our relationship with alcohol and how it affects our lives. This is where sober curiosity comes in.
© iStock
4 / 30 Fotos
Sobriety challenges
- While the desire to take a break from drinking is nothing new (challenges like Sober October and Dry January have been around for years), the term "sober curious" was coined by author Ruby Warrington more recently.
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5 / 30 Fotos
Ruby Warrington
- Warrington released a book in 2018 called ‘Sober Curious: The Blissful Sleep, Greater Focus, Limitless Presence, and Deep Connection Awaiting Us All on the Other Side of Alcohol.’ The name pretty much says it all!
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6 / 30 Fotos
The common experiences of the sober curious - Warrington describes a number of behaviors in her book that probably sound familiar to many of us. For example, drinking socially but never craving a drink or needing to drink daily.
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7 / 30 Fotos
Socially acceptable
- Your drinking might be on the same level as those in your social circle, and doesn’t seem to hurt you or the people around you.
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8 / 30 Fotos
Not exactly problematic - You’ve never had a “rock bottom” moment that made you think your drinking was a serious problem, and you don’t feel dependent on alcohol.
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9 / 30 Fotos
However...
- Despite all of these behaviors that would suggest you have a relatively healthy relationship with alcohol based on social norms, you still have some doubts.
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10 / 30 Fotos
A part of daily life
- Drinking alcohol has been grandfathered down as a societal norm for centuries and has become an accepted addition to all kinds of celebrations and life changes. Having a glass of wine to wind down after a stressful day or going on a night out with friends after a breakup aren’t seen as problematic behaviors.
© Shutterstock
11 / 30 Fotos
Questioning the status quo
- While this attitude towards drinking rings true for many, some are interested in an alternative approach. It’s not necessarily unhealthy to celebrate and commiserate with alcohol, but it’s also healthy and valid to question that connection and find other ways of responding to our emotions and life events.
© Shutterstock
12 / 30 Fotos
Feeling pressured and alone - Choosing not to drink for reasons that aren’t directly related to health or religion might get a few strange looks. As unfair as that is, it can often make it harder to say no. Drinking is seen as harmless by so many that it can feel like you’re struggling with these feelings alone. The reality is that there is a growing community interested in mindful drinking.
© Getty Images
13 / 30 Fotos
Sober bars - In addition to the growing interest in all areas of wellness, sober bars have been popping up in cities all over the world. They provide a space for people to meet and socialize, providing the connection we all crave, without the need to involve alcohol.
© Shutterstock
14 / 30 Fotos
The sober generation
- The millennial generation are being referred to as “generation sober” as they embrace this new health-conscious lifestyle that is becoming more and more normalized.
© Shutterstock
15 / 30 Fotos
The basics of sober curiosity
- Sober curiosity begins with reflecting on how alcohol impacts your life, as well as questioning drinking culture in general.
© Shutterstock
16 / 30 Fotos
Anyone can benefit
- Anyone can benefit from trying out sober curiosity. As mentioned before, it’s not aimed at those with serious alcohol dependence issues, but there is still a wide spectrum that can include concerns about your relationship with alcohol.
© Shutterstock
17 / 30 Fotos
How do you use alcohol?
- You might be concerned about a habit like having one drink every evening to unwind after a long day, or relying on alcohol to get you in the mood to socialize. Usually, alcohol doesn’t even have the intended effect in the long-term and creates more anxiety.
© Shutterstock
18 / 30 Fotos
A temporary break
- You might not feel the need to quit entirely, but think that taking a break from alcohol would benefit you. Similar to the month-long sobriety challenges that have been popularized, it doesn't need to be permanent. You’re simply curious about how avoiding alcohol might fit into your life.
© Shutterstock
19 / 30 Fotos
An occasional drink is OK
- You can can choose to avoid alcohol for a couple of weeks, a month, or even a year. Alternatively, just say “for now” and see how long it feels right. You’re also free to have the occasional drink if you want to, which is one of the main reasons sober curiosity differs from total sobriety and may not be suitable for those with addiction issues.
© Shutterstock
20 / 30 Fotos
Mindful drinking
- It’s possible that a few months of practicing sober curiosity will help those with problematic drinking habits to drink more mindfully and in greater moderation in the future.
© Shutterstock
21 / 30 Fotos
Focus on the gains
- It’s easy to think of all the ways avoiding alcohol restricts us, so it’s important to focus on what you’ll gain when you start. For example, rather than lamenting that nights out with friends won’t be the same, think about the things you can do with the extra energy you’ll have without the hangovers!
© Shutterstock
22 / 30 Fotos
Organize alternative social gatherings
- If alcohol was a major part of your social life, plan some alternative ways you can spend your time. If you still feel like you can go to a club with your friends on the weekend totally sober, more power to you! Others might want to plan daytime activities and engage in other hobbies that satisfy the social animal inside all of us.
© Shutterstock
23 / 30 Fotos
Plan your response - If you know you’ll be in a situation where alcohol will be offered, prepare your answer in advance. It’ll help you stick to your guns in the moment. That being said, you don’t owe anyone an explanation. If you don’t want to explain, “no thanks” should be enough
© iStock
24 / 30 Fotos
Connect with sober buddies
- Make an effort to connect with others who don’t drink or who you feel drink in moderation and are open to sober activities. Go for brunch (without bottomless mimosas), grab a coffee, join a book club, take up rock climbing—whatever you feel like!
© Shutterstock
25 / 30 Fotos
Consider moderation
- If it all sounds a bit extreme and you’re not ready to take a break from drinking yet, consider starting by drinking in moderation. There are moderation management programs that can help you explore this option.
© Shutterstock
26 / 30 Fotos
Find a plan that works for you
- They encourage steps like keeping a diary of your drinking, including your motivations and how you felt after. They provide clear guidelines for moderate drinking, and you can connect with a community of others on the same path.
© Shutterstock
27 / 30 Fotos
Non-alcoholic options are increasing
- Sober curiosity is a growing trend that will likely become more and more common. Even the major alcohol brands are taking note and are coming out with more non-alcoholic beers, wines, and even gin.
© Shutterstock
28 / 30 Fotos
You know your body best
- When it comes to our physical and our mental well-being, there is no one-fits-all answer. You might notice that one glass of wine makes you feel groggy the next day, while your friends seem to throw back several with no adverse effects. All we can do is listen to our bodies and find what works for us. See also: What is mindful drinking, and what are its benefits?
© Shutterstock
29 / 30 Fotos
What does it mean to be sober curious?
- If you feel like reducing your alcohol intake would have a positive impact on your physical and mental health, then the sober curious lifestyle might be for you! You don’t have to struggle with addiction to recognize that drinking doesn’t serve you. Whether you’re sick of weekend hangovers, starting the day fuzzy-headed after a couple of glasses with dinner the night before, or wondering how alcohol is affecting your moods, making the choice to avoid alcohol for a while can greatly improve your quality of life. Click through this gallery to learn all about the sober curious movement and decide if it’s the right choice for you.
© Shutterstock
0 / 30 Fotos
The bad side of the buzz - We all know that consuming alcohol has negative side effects. Besides the obvious hangovers, it can also affect our moods and ability to focus, even in small quantities. What's more, it can cause irritation to the gut and increase the likelihood of developing a number of serious illnesses.
© Shutterstock
1 / 30 Fotos
Diminishing stamina
- It’s easy to shake off a few weeknight drinks when you’re in your early twenties, but as life goes on the hangovers seem to get worse and last longer.
© Shutterstock
2 / 30 Fotos
Countering social norms
- Social drinking is so normalized that choosing not to drink purely for wellness reasons is quite unusual and can often draw questions and assumptions. The sober curious movement aims to normalize the choice not to drink, even if it’s not because of addiction issues.
© Shutterstock
3 / 30 Fotos
Sobriety vs. sober curiosity - We don’t need to meet the criteria for alcohol addiction in order to reevaluate our relationship with alcohol and how it affects our lives. This is where sober curiosity comes in.
© iStock
4 / 30 Fotos
Sobriety challenges
- While the desire to take a break from drinking is nothing new (challenges like Sober October and Dry January have been around for years), the term "sober curious" was coined by author Ruby Warrington more recently.
© Shutterstock
5 / 30 Fotos
Ruby Warrington
- Warrington released a book in 2018 called ‘Sober Curious: The Blissful Sleep, Greater Focus, Limitless Presence, and Deep Connection Awaiting Us All on the Other Side of Alcohol.’ The name pretty much says it all!
© Getty Images
6 / 30 Fotos
The common experiences of the sober curious - Warrington describes a number of behaviors in her book that probably sound familiar to many of us. For example, drinking socially but never craving a drink or needing to drink daily.
© Shutterstock
7 / 30 Fotos
Socially acceptable
- Your drinking might be on the same level as those in your social circle, and doesn’t seem to hurt you or the people around you.
© Shutterstock
8 / 30 Fotos
Not exactly problematic - You’ve never had a “rock bottom” moment that made you think your drinking was a serious problem, and you don’t feel dependent on alcohol.
© Shutterstock
9 / 30 Fotos
However...
- Despite all of these behaviors that would suggest you have a relatively healthy relationship with alcohol based on social norms, you still have some doubts.
© Shutterstock
10 / 30 Fotos
A part of daily life
- Drinking alcohol has been grandfathered down as a societal norm for centuries and has become an accepted addition to all kinds of celebrations and life changes. Having a glass of wine to wind down after a stressful day or going on a night out with friends after a breakup aren’t seen as problematic behaviors.
© Shutterstock
11 / 30 Fotos
Questioning the status quo
- While this attitude towards drinking rings true for many, some are interested in an alternative approach. It’s not necessarily unhealthy to celebrate and commiserate with alcohol, but it’s also healthy and valid to question that connection and find other ways of responding to our emotions and life events.
© Shutterstock
12 / 30 Fotos
Feeling pressured and alone - Choosing not to drink for reasons that aren’t directly related to health or religion might get a few strange looks. As unfair as that is, it can often make it harder to say no. Drinking is seen as harmless by so many that it can feel like you’re struggling with these feelings alone. The reality is that there is a growing community interested in mindful drinking.
© Getty Images
13 / 30 Fotos
Sober bars - In addition to the growing interest in all areas of wellness, sober bars have been popping up in cities all over the world. They provide a space for people to meet and socialize, providing the connection we all crave, without the need to involve alcohol.
© Shutterstock
14 / 30 Fotos
The sober generation
- The millennial generation are being referred to as “generation sober” as they embrace this new health-conscious lifestyle that is becoming more and more normalized.
© Shutterstock
15 / 30 Fotos
The basics of sober curiosity
- Sober curiosity begins with reflecting on how alcohol impacts your life, as well as questioning drinking culture in general.
© Shutterstock
16 / 30 Fotos
Anyone can benefit
- Anyone can benefit from trying out sober curiosity. As mentioned before, it’s not aimed at those with serious alcohol dependence issues, but there is still a wide spectrum that can include concerns about your relationship with alcohol.
© Shutterstock
17 / 30 Fotos
How do you use alcohol?
- You might be concerned about a habit like having one drink every evening to unwind after a long day, or relying on alcohol to get you in the mood to socialize. Usually, alcohol doesn’t even have the intended effect in the long-term and creates more anxiety.
© Shutterstock
18 / 30 Fotos
A temporary break
- You might not feel the need to quit entirely, but think that taking a break from alcohol would benefit you. Similar to the month-long sobriety challenges that have been popularized, it doesn't need to be permanent. You’re simply curious about how avoiding alcohol might fit into your life.
© Shutterstock
19 / 30 Fotos
An occasional drink is OK
- You can can choose to avoid alcohol for a couple of weeks, a month, or even a year. Alternatively, just say “for now” and see how long it feels right. You’re also free to have the occasional drink if you want to, which is one of the main reasons sober curiosity differs from total sobriety and may not be suitable for those with addiction issues.
© Shutterstock
20 / 30 Fotos
Mindful drinking
- It’s possible that a few months of practicing sober curiosity will help those with problematic drinking habits to drink more mindfully and in greater moderation in the future.
© Shutterstock
21 / 30 Fotos
Focus on the gains
- It’s easy to think of all the ways avoiding alcohol restricts us, so it’s important to focus on what you’ll gain when you start. For example, rather than lamenting that nights out with friends won’t be the same, think about the things you can do with the extra energy you’ll have without the hangovers!
© Shutterstock
22 / 30 Fotos
Organize alternative social gatherings
- If alcohol was a major part of your social life, plan some alternative ways you can spend your time. If you still feel like you can go to a club with your friends on the weekend totally sober, more power to you! Others might want to plan daytime activities and engage in other hobbies that satisfy the social animal inside all of us.
© Shutterstock
23 / 30 Fotos
Plan your response - If you know you’ll be in a situation where alcohol will be offered, prepare your answer in advance. It’ll help you stick to your guns in the moment. That being said, you don’t owe anyone an explanation. If you don’t want to explain, “no thanks” should be enough
© iStock
24 / 30 Fotos
Connect with sober buddies
- Make an effort to connect with others who don’t drink or who you feel drink in moderation and are open to sober activities. Go for brunch (without bottomless mimosas), grab a coffee, join a book club, take up rock climbing—whatever you feel like!
© Shutterstock
25 / 30 Fotos
Consider moderation
- If it all sounds a bit extreme and you’re not ready to take a break from drinking yet, consider starting by drinking in moderation. There are moderation management programs that can help you explore this option.
© Shutterstock
26 / 30 Fotos
Find a plan that works for you
- They encourage steps like keeping a diary of your drinking, including your motivations and how you felt after. They provide clear guidelines for moderate drinking, and you can connect with a community of others on the same path.
© Shutterstock
27 / 30 Fotos
Non-alcoholic options are increasing
- Sober curiosity is a growing trend that will likely become more and more common. Even the major alcohol brands are taking note and are coming out with more non-alcoholic beers, wines, and even gin.
© Shutterstock
28 / 30 Fotos
You know your body best
- When it comes to our physical and our mental well-being, there is no one-fits-all answer. You might notice that one glass of wine makes you feel groggy the next day, while your friends seem to throw back several with no adverse effects. All we can do is listen to our bodies and find what works for us. See also: What is mindful drinking, and what are its benefits?
© Shutterstock
29 / 30 Fotos
What does it mean to be sober curious?
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